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RICHARD WINE
Self-Sabotage Coach & Hypnotherapist
You keep ruining the good things.
The job you wanted — and now you're looking for what's wrong with it. The relationship that was working — until you pushed them away. The goal you almost reached — before you quit at the 90% mark.
You're not broken. You're not lazy. You're not "self-destructive." You just learned to sabotage yourself — and you never learned to stop.
I can help.
SOUNDS FAMILIAR?
→ You know exactly what to do. You just don't do it.
→ You're amazing at helping others succeed — but can't do it for yourself.
→ Every time things start going well, you wait for the other shoe to drop.
→ You start strong, then abandon ship right before the finish line.
→ You say yes when you mean no — then resent everyone, including yourself.
This isn't a character flaw. It's a pattern. And patterns can be broken.
HOW I HELP?
Your conscious mind wants success.
Your subconscious mind wants safety.
When those two disagree, guess who wins?
(Hint: it's not the one reading self-help books.)
I use neuroscience-backed tools — Hypnotherapy, NLP, and nervous system work — to reprogram the part of you that keeps hitting the brakes.
No fluff. No therapy-speak. No "just think positive."
Just results.
WHY ME?
Because I'm not teaching theory.
I broke my own self-sabotage patterns — the hard way.
Now I help others skip the decade I spent figuring it out.
" Riccardo has a way of seeing what others don’t. Working with him changed my life in ways I never thought possible"
T. Lads., Client and Entrepreneur
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about RICHARD
I spent years destroying many of the good things I built.
Opportunities I talked myself out of.
Relationships I pushed away before they could leave me first.
Projects I abandoned at the 90% mark — because finishing meant being seen.
I didn't know it had a name. I just thought something was wrong with me.
HERE'S WHAT I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND
I learned early that being myself wasn't safe.
Growing up gay with a father who couldn't accept it, surviving bullying that taught me visibility = danger, losing my brother to addiction and my parents too soon — I built an entire operating system around one rule:
"Don't be too much. Don't want too much. Don't succeed too visibly."
That rule kept me safe once. Then it kept me stuck for more than twenty years.
THE TURN
I became obsessed with one question: Why do smart people do things that hurt them?
I studied neuroscience. Trained in hypnotherapy. Got my hands on NLP, EFT, Psychodrama. Worked with hundreds of clients — CEOs, artists, parents, dreamers.
And I learned something that changed everything:
Self-sabotage isn't stupidity. It's protection. Your subconscious isn't your enemy. It's just running old software. And software can be updated.
WHAT I DO NOW
I help people stop ruining good things.
Not by "thinking positive."
Not by white-knuckling through with willpower.
But by reprogramming the subconscious part of them that keeps pulling the emergency brake.
My approach is direct. No fluff, no therapy-speak, no spiritual bypassing. I'll tell you what I see. You'll do the work. Things will shift.
CREDENTIALS
- Registered Clinical Hypnotherapist (GQHP)
- Member, National Guild of Hypnotists
- Transformational Coach
- Certified in Psychodrama
- Creator of Hypnonscious™ (100,000+ sessions served)
- Based in London, working globally online
THE DEAL
I'm not here to "fix" you. You're not broken. I'm here to help you see the pattern — the one that made sense once but is costing you now — and give you the tools to finally let it go.
You already have everything you need. I just help you stop blocking it.
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